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"The Truth Will Come Out"?

1/25/2018

10 Comments

 
You know when you break out into a bit of a cold sweat and start shaking because your adrenaline is up?

We're at that point now.
Since the moment I opened my eyes this morning (well not at my 3 a.m. baby feeding/pumping hour), I've been kicked into high gear. I am running on fumes. That's what happens when you have a newborn and pump or feed a baby EVERY THREE HOURS.

Not in a million years would I have expected that a school board trustee would behave in the manner that Mike Dunn did this morning.

I've been consistent with my opinions. I understand that, for some, they are polarizing. That's life. That's ok. I don't have some false hope that everyone in the world will like me. That's no way to live. Speak your truth and find those that are ok with that.  It's taken me a long time to get to that point and accept that. To be ok with knowing that there are people who will, with extreme infatuation, absolutely loathe me for my page and my opinions. Criticism isn't always fun to receive, but it comes with the territory, right?

I've barely eaten today. I've just been trying to keep up.

I'm reading comments from Dunn's supporters stating this is fake news and "the truth will come out." I'm so fascinated by the people who double down on their ignorance. Do they think that at 4 a.m. this morning I doctored up some emails? Like, I need to know. In what world is this fake news? What truth is coming out? You all have access to all of my post and all of my blogs, as well as the board meetings... which are ALL PUBLIC. You literally can't get more transparent than I have been. SO, again, even if you disagree with everything I've ever said... kindly, STFU.

I'm angry. Really angry. I have a week and a half left of my maternity leave. I spent the majority of my day dealing with a publicly elected official threatening my place of employment because I utilized my right to free speech at a public school board meeting.

Do you know how insane that is?

AND THERE ARE A TON OF OTHER ISSUES WE SHOULD BE TALKING ABOUT. The fact that a board trustee has spent this much time to attack my employment, and me indirectly via this email, is an absolute waste of time and district resources. I, as a private citizen and blogger can pine away all I want on one issue, or multiple issues. That's my choice. But why is a publicly elected representative who is supposed to be serving the district and all of the constituents in the district wasting time on my criticisms of his behavior? What a disservice that does our community to be quite honest. 

I've been blocked out of my Facebook page for three days from (I'm assuming) Dunn supporters who went on a reporting rampage against my page after HE EMAILED AND THREATENED MY WORK. I'm still trying to wrap my head around anyone justifying this.

I've been fine all day, albeit inundated and on high adrenaline. 

And now I'm exhausted. I'm exhausted and I also know I won't be sleeping tonight because, again, in addition to having a toddler, I have a four-week old who eats EVERY THREE HOURS. I'm trying to process and my brain is wired. The full weight of stress just now hitting me that I didn't even realize was there.

I'm pretty sure this isn't The Conejo Way.



10 Comments
Dawn
1/25/2018 09:50:24 pm

Oh man, try to get some rest. I’m sorry this is happening. I hope you know how much you mean to a lot of people.

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Maggie
1/25/2018 10:07:14 pm

Get some rest. Nothing will change until the morning. And don't worry, we have your back and I have an idea.

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Nicole Malone
1/25/2018 10:24:45 pm

It’s time to walk away for the day. You’ve done more than enough for the cause. For now, allow your story to be shared & told by others. I hope this horrendous experience leads to good. But for now, take care of you & your babies.

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Serena
1/25/2018 10:27:42 pm

You have an army supporting you. Most importantly, your family and employers. I’ve read Scott’s response a dozen times and continue to feel empowered by his words. Those that are blind, and continue to die-hard defend someone who did something so wrong is not uncommon today but it isn’t the majority.
Enjoy that baby and todd of yours. Your courage has made so many of us profoundly proud

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Sally Connick Hibbitts
1/25/2018 10:46:39 pm

You have so much support and love Jess from our community as a whole. The outliers are the same hateful people who want to destroy our public schools in the guise of being “concerned citizens”! Well, we have news for all those so called CCs...you ain’t seen nothing yet!!! We have Jessica’s back and will be victorious at the polls in November. Nelson Buss, Mary Ann Van Zuyle, and Jenny Hughes Friedericks are the ones to support!

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Celeste Russi link
1/25/2018 11:23:39 pm

You are an amazing, intelligent, brave woman. Dunn is scared of you that’s why he’s doing this. It seems like you have a lot of support in the community and I personally think there are more people who think like us than like them.
You should run for school board I’d totally donate and work for your campaign
Hang in there
Thanks for your bravery
Celeste Russi
805-402-6022

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Heather Skelly
1/26/2018 06:25:07 am

Jess,
I am so sorry all of these whackos are directing their ugliness on you. Thank you for being the champion of all of our voices. We stand with you and support you. The truth WILL come out. Those with half a brain or more will see that you are on the right side of this story. Stay strong Mamma!
Heather

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Niki
1/26/2018 09:32:17 am

I echo the comments of all these mommas and I will add, that it is critical to your (and your baby's health) that you take care of yourself well. Your baby will catch your vibe. Your job momma is to be as positive and stress/anxiety free as possible. Channel that anger into productivity and positivity. So that, that's what your children vibe off you. Kudos to you for being a beacon of hope to so many people!
xxoo
Niki

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Wendy
1/26/2018 09:51:51 am

He has built his own burial pyre, one can only hope.
Now that this is national news - I hope voters read past the headline or tweet and really see Dunn for who is is.


..Thank you for braving it out!

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Barbara
1/26/2018 10:08:39 am

Jessica, I'm so proud of you for standing strong against this board. One day your children will know how hard you fought for their education. Please take to heart what others have said-your children and husband need you to take care of yourself. Rest, eat, enjoy your babies. We all support you and have your back. You are not alone in this and we so appreciate what you've done!

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